“Just because you’re a ‘feminist’ doesn’t mean you have to act like a man,” my Gramma Violet said in a voice that made me feel like I was 13 again and she was lecturing me on boys before my first dance . . .
I didn’t listen then and I wasn’t going to listen now . . .
“Gram, it’s different now . . .
It’s not like it was when you were young . . .”
“Jenny, when I was your age I had already been married to your grandfather for . . .” she started and I had to stop myself from throwing my phone across the room .
The woman was 83 years old and had only been with ONE MAN her entire LIFE . . .
She met gramps when she was 16 and they were together for over 6 DECADES before he passed just under 6 years ago . . .
She never had to deal with texting and tinder and men who are terrified to even talk to you because they don’t know the difference between flirting and sexual harassment . . .
She never lived in a world where men refused to commit because they knew their next date was just a few taps on a phone away . . .
Or had to compete for Grampa’s attention with porn . . .
She had no idea what it was like to be 39 and single again and terrified of being old and alone and . . .
“You have to make him chase you, Jenny,” she said . . .
And I even though I knew she was trying to be kind I felt this bubble of frustrated rage bursting up in my chest and what came out of my mouth was . . .
“HOW????,” I practically yelled. “Everyone always says that but HOW, Gram, HOW???” by . . .
“Your grandfather,” she started and I couldn’t help it, I cried . . .
“Grampa practically worshipped the ground Gram walked on. He was always doing little things for her, leaving her notes, talking about how beautiful she was to anyone who would listen . . .
And he always seemed so happy whenever she was around. I was there at the hospital when he passed . . .
When he looked her in the eyes and whispered “I love you” with the last of his breath and died . . .
Whenever anyone asked what she did to make him act that way she would just smile with her eyes and say “I guess I just got lucky,”
“What are you doing tonight?,” she asked, kind now because she heard my tears . . .
“I don’t know. Probably just Netflix. What about you? Are you playing cards or . . .”
“Oh, no I have a date with this man who just moved into the complex. I think he’s too young for me. He’s only 72 but he’s funny and he’s got a nice body and he keeps asking me out so I figure why not.”
“What about Jim?,” I asked about the man I thought was her “boyfriend” when she introduced me to him a week ago . . .
“Oh, him? We still spend time together but I told him I wasn’t interested in being tied down right now. Life is short! OK, honey, I really do have to go.”
“I love you,” I said in something close to shock.
“I love you too,” she said and I could feel the warmth of her through the phone as I curled up in a ball on my bed and thought about Jeremy and the three months we spent together and cried.
“Jenny, I love you . . . I do, but I’m not ‘in love’ with you. I don’t know what it is. I don’t know what changed but I just don’t feel it the way I used to. I’m so sorry,” he said . . .
And then he was gone and then I was 39 and broken hearted and single and alone again while my 83-year-old Grandmother spent time with her “younger man.”
I thought about going back to Tinder and online dating and guys who play “games” and I wondered what I was doing so wrong . . .
3 days later we were at her place playing Rummy 500 and she was beating me the way she always did . . .
“No way, Gram,” I said . . .
“No, no. Not on the cards, she said. Gambling is only fun when I think I might lose and, no offense honey, but you’re awful at this game,” she said as she put down three jacks, three aces, three kings . . .
“Do you know how many more women there are than men in retirement communities like this?,” she asked .
And I thought about it. I mean, women live a lot longer than men so . . .
“A lot?,” I guessed.
“A lot,” she said. By the time you’re my age there’s more than twice as many women as men. And most of good ones are dating ten or twenty years younger because with so few men around they can get away with it.”
“You tell me I never had to deal with dating because I’d only ever been with your Grampa Frank and he treated me like a queen,” she said.
“Did you ever think for a second that the reason he did that is because I knew what I was doing?,” she asked.
“Do you maybe wonder why it is that I have men chasing me in my 80’s when most women my age know full well they’re going to die alone with their cats?”
“I love you, Jenny, and I’m not going to be around forever. I hate seeing you so sad when I know you don’t have to be if you just get out of your way and let yourself act like a woman.”
“So here’s the bet, honey: You do what I say when it comes to dating and men for ONE MONTH . . . you still have all that credit card debt, right?,” she asked.
“Yes,” I said, feeling the weight of it on my chest suddenly. $12,471 I didn’t think I could ever pay off.
“You listen to me for ONE MONTH and if at the end of that time you don’t have this Jeremy guy or any other man you want ignoring other women and CHASING you then I’ll pay off your whole debt for you.”
“Can you afford that?,” I asked.
“Your grandfather left me very well taken care of,” she said. “You’re going to get a lot of it in a few years anyway but if I can’t help you . . . if I can’t show you the truth about men and how they’re the same now as they ever were I’ll give you enough for your credit cards now instead.”
“Deal?,” she asked thrusting her wrinkled, delicate hand toward me over the kitchen table.
I thought about my credit card debt.
I thought about Jeremy . . .
I thought about the the hell of online dating . . .
I had nothing to lose . . .
“Deal,” I said . . .
We started that very afternoon . . .
“There’s one incredibly important thing you need to understand about men if you ever want to find someone who treats you the way your Grampa Jon did me,” she said like she was teaching school again the way she did before she retired . . .
I bit my tongue thinking she was going to say something dumb I’d heard before. Something about how men need to “hunt” . . .
Or how “respect” is more important to men than “love” is . . .
Or how the key is to act “confident” and “be yourself” . . .
But then she told me something I hadn’t really heard before . . .
Something I hadn’t really ever even thought about before . . .
Something that, when I heard it, felt like dominos slotting into place finally explaining why every relationship I ever had had sputtered and stumbled and finally stopped no matter how hard I tried to keep it going . . .
“If you want a man to chase you and commit to you and treat you like his Queen the way your Grampa treated me . . .”
“He has to believe with every fiber of his being that chasing you, choosing you, committing to you, your entire relationship is his idea.”
“He has to believe with every fiber of his being that he is the one who made the first move . . . that he is the one who convinces you to be his girlfriend . . . that he is the one who begs you to be his wife . . .”
“If you can do that . . . if you can convince him deep in his soul that you are a prize he worked for and EARNED then he will love you and romance you and brag about you to his friends for as long as you want him to.”
I sat there stunned for a moment. I thought about the times I’d tried to guilt a guy I was dating into being my boyfriend . . .
The times I’d “put myself out there” and only ended up with guys who were just looking for sex . . .
I thought about Jeremy. I thought about my empty bed. I thought about being an old woman alone with her cats. I thought about my credit card bills.
And then I looked my grandmother in the eyes and asked her the most important question I could:
“How, Gram?,” I whispered. “How?”
And then, over the next few weeks she didn’t just tell me, she showed me . . .
And she changed my life too . . .
First she taught me her “thought magnet” technique . . .
It seemed weird at first. Just 5 words I could send over text or messenger or even leave as a voicemail on his phone . . .
I didn’t think it was going to work . . .
But it must have triggered something in his mind . . .
Because the next day he wrote me asking if I wanted to get coffee . . .
(I was so tempted when I got his message, but just like Gram taught me I told him I couldn’t and that I wasn’t ready to “just be friends.”)
I thought maybe that was going to be it . . .
But the next day he texted me AGAIN sending fun, flirty messages . . .
And asked me about my day . . .
And told me he missed me . . .
And it’s like suddenly it’s like it was the beginning again . . .
Like it was when we first met . . .
When I first fell for him so hard . . .
“Thinking about you, beautiful,” he’d say.
“I’m so glad you’re in my life.”
Eventually I said “Yes,” when he asked me out (Gramma Violet told me exactly when I should) . . .
And I can’t even tell you the joy I felt when I saw the sparkle in his eye as he looked me up and down . . .
As I saw the hunger in him that had been missing for so long . . .
That night we talked and cuddled . . .
He held me in a way that felt like love instead of lust . . .
And the whole time we were together I thought of what Gramma Violet had told me to do . . .
I used everything she’d taught me about the masculine mind . . .
And when we said goodbye I let him kiss me . . .
I wanted to dive back in headfirst with Jeremy, but Gramma wouldn’t let me . . .
She said it would be good for my ego to have multiple men chasing me at once . . .
And I have to admit, she was right . . .
I went on a few dates and I marveled when these men opened the door for me, acted like actual gentlemen . . .
I even used a little trick of hers that requires nothing more than tilting your head just so and suddenly could get any guy I wanted in a bar to come up to talk to me without them having any idea I was doing anything at all . . .
It was fun being so wanted and romanced and pursued . . .
But no matter who I went out with I just kept thinking of Jeremy . . .
Of the connection we had that I just couldn’t feel with anyone else . . .
So I used a few of Violet’s subtle tricks on him . . .
And one day we were walking and holding hands . . .
And he pulled me to him and looked me in the eyes . . .
And asked me to be his (and only his) . . .
And after acting like I was thinking about it I melted and said yes . . .
And suddenly he and I were a “we” again . . .
And he’s been chasing me ever since.
And that could be the end of my story . . .
Or at least the beginning of a new one . . .
But I couldn’t handle the guilt . . .
I couldn’t handle seeing so many of my friends struggling to find the love that I finally, finally had . . .
I couldn’t handle lying to my sister about what had “transformed” Jeremy . . .
So one by one I started to share my Grandmother’s subtle psychological techniques and tricks with just a few of my friends . . .
My best friend Sally who hadn’t had a boyfriend in 4 years since her ex broke her heart hated the very idea of what I was telling her to do . . .
But she did and suddenly had not one but TWO handsome, successful men hunting her with all the passion they could muster . . .
My cousin Kim who was seeing a guy who said he “wasn’t monogamous” . . .
It took her just 3 days of Gramma’s advice before he BEGGED her for a real commitment . . .
My friend Kelly from the office who said “Jenny, I swear your Grandmother has saved my marriage. I can’t believe what’s come over Sam but THANK YOU.”
And over the next year as woman after woman used my Grandmother’s subtle secrets to transform how men see them . . .
To bring the SPARK back into relationships that had grown cold . . .
To have men CHASING them now and forever while thinking it was 100% his idea . . .
Eventually I ended up creating a “handbook” out of all of Violet’s advice . . .
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